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Trying to fulfill your purpose in
life is a daunting task. For those
who don't know what it is, it can
create a great deal of turmoil. For
those who do know what it is and
can't seem to make it happen, it can
be equally traumatic. There are
often many obstacles, and you have
to have both a positive view of
yourself, inner strength, as well as
determination in order to see a goal
through.
Most people are guided by that
mysterious thing in our lives called
"purpose." If things are going well,
it's because it's supposed to be
that way. If things are not going
well, it's because it's a lesson we
are supposed to learn, one that will
get us closer to our purpose
someday. We all want a purpose, yet
it seems like this all-important
unobtainable thing. Yet, how can we
find it?
First, accept that it may be time to
find your purpose in life. It may
take trial and error before you get
it right. Mistakes are a great way
to uncover your purpose because you
have the opportunity to find out
what you like and don't like. After
many "don't likes" and "why do I
keep doing the same things over an
over again" comes a time of personal
freedom and peace. Once you get
what's not working out of the way,
you can make room for the good
stuff.
Second, believe that you will know
when you find it. How will you know?
You will feel it in the pit of your
stomach. It's something that feels
so right that you can't imagine
doing anything else. And, you will
feel "high" when you're doing it.
This "high" feeling may feel a bit
strange, and it may even frighten
you. Don't be afraid, it's your
higher power talking to you, letting
you know that you are doing the
right thing.
Lastly, you know you've found your
purpose in life when it doesn't
revolve around you. It's not the
bigger house or the shiny new car
that will make you happy. These are
just goals, but they are not a
substitute for your purpose in life.
Your purpose in life will bring you
happiness and true happiness comes
from contributing to other people's
lives and making a difference for
someone else. We were put on this
earth to help others, and that is
the greatest gift of all! |